I've wanted to go to Vietnam since before my husband and I were married. He was going to go back alone earlier this year, but I begged him to wait until the baby was born. I believe that to truly know a person you have to understand where they're from. It shapes us in ways that are so subliminal we ourselves don't realize its impact until somebody points it out to us. So, I considered visiting the country he was born in a must.
After Lela was born we began organizing our trip. We booked our tickets, reserved our on-flight bassinet, and paid our travel agent. After many years of anticipation, we were finally on our way!
Culture Shock
Nearly twenty-four hours later we finally landed in Ho Chi Minh City. We gathered our luggage and walked through the doors to a crowd of people waiting for their loved ones. We arrived at night so it wasn't really hot, but it sure was humid! The heavy air was putting my lungs in to overdrive. Vinh's father gathered our luggage, threw it in the back of his truck, and we were off.
Although my husband's dad didn't live too far from the airport distance wise, the average speed limit was about 35 MPH making our destination almost two hours away. Motorists zoomed left and right, in between cars and other motorcycles. They drove on the wrong side of the road and backed up on rotaries. People from infants to seniors piled up on the motorcycles so that there would be up to four people on one bike. Although there were traffic signals, there didn't seem to be any incentive to follow them.
Confession:
I've never been overseas. I've never even left North America. As we drove away from the city the miles upon miles of tiny shops and restaurants in people's front yards were never ending. I was suddenly reminded- I'm in a third world country. I'm nowhere close to home, and I can't go back to my comfortable little life if I find the heat, food, or anything else to be unbearable. As I continued to stare out the window, a slight panic set in....
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Have you ever had culture shock?
Where do you still hope to visit someday?
